You may appreciate links to other articles relating to the concepts presented on this site.
http://judysherman.wordpress.com/2009/01/17/how-is-your-business-doing/
http://judysherman.wordpress.com/2008/11/26/you-have-the-power-within/
http://judysherman.wordpress.com/2008/11/26/my-secret-is-opposite-of-what-your-upline-tells-you/
http://judysherman.wordpress.com/2008/11/07/techniques-that-work/
http://judysherman.wordpress.com/2008/11/04/helps-you-in-four-ways/
THE SECRET TO SUCCESS IS KNOWING WHEN OPPORTUNITY KNOCKS
AND THEN OPENING THE DOOR TO IT.
UNTILL YOU OPEN THAT DOOR, NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE FOR YOU.
YOU WILL BE WHERE YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN AND GET WHAT YOU’VE ALWAYS GOTTEN!
IS THAT ENOUGH FOR YOU?
Okay, let’s get serious about this now. You want to be successful with your business but that means you need to be on the Internet. Nevertheless, you have no idea how to go about it or you figure it will cost too much to get set up.
Here is where the rubber meets the road my friend. Perhaps it’s time for you to make decisions that you have not been willing to make up to now.
You have a desire to succeed but you are not in the right position yet. Let me point out a few reasons why you are having problems and see if any of them fit your circumstances.
* You need to quit talking about succeeding and just do it!
* You need to quit complaining about not succeeding, about why you can’t do it, and get things resolved now so you can!
* You need to make a decision about working with the right people, perhaps you will see me as the right person, and let that person or persons help you.
* You need to get the ball rolling now, even if you think you’re not ready yet. I can help you with that, and you won’t feel overwhelmed.
IT’S TIME RIGHT NOW TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR FUTURE.
I’m and ready to help you where I can, so let me.
Do you have a mentor or someone you respect that you can be accountable to?
Remember that you would not ask a banker for advice on farming any more than you would ask for advice from a person who doesn’t know the first thing about being successful.
You want to take advice from someone who has been around successful people and has the mentality for success. That person may not yet have the level of success that you want but does know how to apply success principles.
Find a person who understands your vision and supports your efforts without criticism or stomping on your dreams. That person needs to help you keep your feet to the fire and tell you when you screw up. You want that person to tell you the truth, even if it’s something you don’t want to hear but you know it’s true. A person like this is NOT easy to find, but when you do you need to rely on their wisdom.
My brother and I have that type of relationship. Most of the time I mentor him, but there are times when he tells me things I don’t want to hear that I need to hear. We make a good tag team for each other. You need someone to be a tag team member for you too. If you don’t have someone, let me help you. I am really good at listening and telling you the truth. I know how to be successful and I have years of experience rubbing shoulders with the most successful people in the Network Marketing world of business.
If you are ready to do something positive right now that gives you a jump start, let me give you a homework assignment. You need to read and ponder on the following books:
Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
PARKING AT A LEVEL OF SUCCESSI’ve discovered that one of the greatest enemies to success is the lack of planning for success! Another is reaching a certain level of success and then parking. Success becomes stagnate when people park themselves and insist on staying there instead of setting new goals and continuing to grow.
People park when they sit back and rest on past laurels; the mistake being that they allow over-confidence and past successes to cloud future rewards. This situation makes people lazy in their business dealings. They become board with their lives and fall victim to complacency.
Another problem with parking is that it also sets up people for a nose-dive if the tide changes, as it often does. As such, it behooves successfull people to continue setting goals that keeps them feeling alive and active. Staying active doesn’t have to mean making more money or reaching a higher level of competiveness, it means setting goals that makes your life mean something more than just making money.
A stagnant situation happens when people stop dreaming, stop reaching for goals, and stop growing in their businesses! This is NOT a good thing! However, I’ve been around a number of success- oriented people over the past thirty years, and I’ve seen this situation happen all too frequently.
It took me a long time to figure out why people die in their businesses or why they fail in life when they seemed to be at the pinnacle of success in their professions. In almost every instance, parking was the reason; they did not plan for what to do next once success was attained.
Unfortunately, people often spend too much time and energy building for their future and then forget how to build a good life in the present or how to maintain good relationships. In so doing, they take people in their lives for granted and don’t see the blessings in their lives. This often happen when people see success as a destination instead of a wonderful journey through life.
The problem with people treating success as a destination is that, once they’ve arrived, they don’t think about what to do next. In other words, they forgot to set additional goals for what is next after reaching their specified goals. Life has a tendency to become routine, mundane, dull, and unexciting. Life seems empty when people have not planned for “What comes next.”
A woman I once knew named Anne found herself in this situation. She described herself as feeling depression. That’s when she asked herself, “Why do I feel this way? All I want to do is cry. I should be happy. I have everything that I could ever want and life is so good to me.”
Anne’s best friend suggested that perhaps what she was experiencing was just a let-down after coming off the high she had been on during that period of time. She had been successful in her business and also had just married a wonderful man. It had been such a whirlwind leading up to the wedding that, when it was all over, she did not know what to do next. In other words, because she had been busily working hard for the event of a lifetime (which she had been praying for a long time), a big hole was left inside of her when it was all over. The problem was she had nothing in place to substitute for the energy high she had been on for the past several months.
My point is that you should not only plan to succeed, but you should also plan for what happens after you reach the level of success for which you had planned. You should make plans for what comes next by setting new goals. Think about the following questions:
These are questions you need to answer so that you have a realistic plan in place to keep you motivated and growing each time you reach a new goal. Also, you need to be adding new lifeblood to everything you set out to accomplish. Old blood gets sluggish and thick when there’s nothing to give it boost once in a while. This means you need to bring new people and new ideas into your circle on a regular basis.
I welcome comments about this subject. Do you believe that planning for what’s next and following through with what you had planned is important?
I suggest you refer to a blog I found interesting. I do not know the author but the material is interesting. Use this link.
Take a look at the questions I pose below to help you determine your weakness and strengths. Once I understand the direction you are pursuing, then I have a better idea of how I can help you with your goals and if you need my help. In fact, you may have some great suggestions of your own. I welcome your suggestions and comments.
ARE YOU WILLING TO LEARN FROM TUTORIALS AND WEBINARS?
ARE YOU READY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE IN ORDER TO SUCCEED IN YOUR BUSINESS?
ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A QUICK FIX TO YOUR MONEY PROBLEMS OR ARE YOU SERIOUS ABOUT BUILDING A BUSINESS YOU CAN BE PROUD OF?
PEOPLE WHO SUCCEED DON’T JUST TALK SUCCESS, THEY ACTUALLY DO WHAT IT TAKES TO SUCCEED!
THE FACT THAT YOU CAME TO THIS SITE TELLS ME YOU HAVE SOME INTEREST IN THIS TOPIC OR THAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING MORE IN YOUR LIFE AND IN YOUR BUSINESS.
I learned that we gain a higher level of understanding when we challenge the status quo, which is the way we always do things. In the process of confronting the status quo (learning about, understanding, and changing the rut) common sense and wisdom develop within us.
Okay! I admit that challenging the status quo did not create peace around me immediately nor provide success! At first, it did not help me develop a higher level of understanding of those things that bring success, peace, joy, and happiness to one’s lifel. In fact, in the beginning, it did just the opposite!
There were times when the people closest to me had trouble accepting the changes that were taking place inside me. They continually resisted the new attitudes that were emerging from the person I was becoming. As I learned later, this often happens when people change internally.
I quickly realized that when we take a stand for what we believe in and make defining changes in our lives, it often changes the way people respond to us. It could be upsetting for some of them because they do not want the status quo disturbed; they are happy with how things are now. This is not necessarily a bad thing when we understand this situation!
People will not always accept what we are doing or be happy about it—but it’s not their choice, it’s ours. However, it is always wrong if they become abusive toward us and try to prevent us from doing what we want (or need) to do. We must stay true to the course in this situation, set clear parameters in our dealings with them, and not shirk in keeping our commitments to ourselves.
I believe wisdom teaches us to expect a certain amount of resistance from those who know us best. Still, having faith in God and in our own ability helps us stay true to our inner selves. This faith is what drives us to succeed in reaching our potential and the measure of our creation.
In conclusion, I know we all get stuck in ruts; it is part of life. However, let me make it clear that escaping your rut does not include running away from your responsibilities and the people who depend on you. It does not mean you do something totally off the wall or drastic either. The point is that reckless and irresponsible actions create scars on the people around you, just like ruts caused by tires in mud leave scars in the terrain where the truck went. You must do everything you can to avoid leaving scars on people who care about you, especially when you are in a selfish and self-centered mood.
In order to make changes you need to make, you must be thoughtful and intelligent about it. Scars from mistakes leave lasting marks, and the consequences from what we do goes on for a long time. Find a friend, your spouse maybe, with whom you can talk through things before doing anything.
It would be wise to sleep on an idea for a day or so, before you make a decision; just to see if it looks the same in the daylight as it did when you were awake all night thinking about it. Can you tell that I’ve done this a few times before?
Let me know how changing the rut is working for you! I would enjoy hearing from you, and hearing about your experiences, your thoughts, your mistakes, and your successes. You can help others who read this report, if you will tell us about your experiences.
Do you appreciate that using the technology available today can help you expose your business to more potential clients and increase your profits? Do you need help setting up your business on the Internet?
There is a plethera of business experts on the Internet that offer a varity of services. This makes it difficult to find a reputable expert that has the experience you need for your particular business scenario. However, I believe I can help you with this delima.
Although I do not have the tools and experience of big corporations, with the cost that accompanies that experience, I do have proof that I know how to build a business on the Internet. As you see below, I improved my own business exposure on the Internet by knowing how to opimize search engines (with 486 search results on google and 817 video views on YouTube).
We live in exciting times, where technology gives us opportunities we never dreamed of in the past. Using that technology advances our abilities to access potential customers, clientelle, and associates never available to us before. We can connect in ways that were never possible before.
For instance, would you have ever known about me before the use of Internet blogging? I would never have learned what I know now about Internet Marketing if it wasn’t for Renegade University; an Internet training center that is a fast track to Internet Marketing success.
I know that success in business and marketing is realized faster when you find the correct expert to advise you. Let’s talk to see if my associates and I can help you. Most of what I offer is free. However, some of my associates and experts charge a nominal fee. Once I understand your needs, I can suggest the best experts I know to advise you.
The bottom line is that, if you want to grow your business, you need to set up a web site that attracts customers, clients, and prospects that are interested in your business and want what you offer. If you don’t, you miss out on one of the most useful vehicles available and expose your business to the greatest amount of people. Let me help you do that for free.
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Being in a rut keeps you stuck in the same place, day after day; perhaps it feels like you’re in a self-made prision that you cannot escape.
If the rut doesn’t change and status quo isn’t challenged, then nothing positive will change for you. Your life will not feel like you have purpose.
You will not be excited about your life, and you will probably feel bored doing the same thing every day; day in and day out.
Status quo has to change if you want a different outcome than you usually get. That means challenging your rut, changing some things in your life that are not as fulfilling as you want, and setting new goals. These goals need to be achievable in the short-run and in the long-run as well.
If you want to change your life and make it more of what you want, you need to be precise in what you want, think, and say. You need to convince your subconsciouse mind that you can have the life you want; otherwise nothing will change.
The subconscious mind gathers information as data and logs it into the brain. It cannot tell the difference between true or false, fantasy or real. It just gathers the information; that’s all. You can easily reprogram your mind to be what you want in reality if you quit telling yourself things that you don’t really want. Everyday, you need to be telling yourself the things you want and take every opportunity to convince youself and others that things will change.
To an extent, the mind’s creative juices can bring into reality what you think about, if it is thought about often enough to make a permanent impression on your mind. Permanent impressions are embedded on the brain when emotions are attached to an idea, a phrase, or an image.
Success-oriented programs use positive affirmations to help imprint constructive information into your brain. They use inspiring messages that have emotions attached to it. That’s why you are told to focus on your dreams (the “WOW” or the “WHY”) when building your business or trying to achieve what you want.
Affirmations use scripts that, when said in present tense as if already attained, represent your goals and dreams. When repeated on a daily basis, new concepts can be imprinted on your mind. When done correctly, powerful dynamics change your life. When done wrong, it is hard, if not impossible to correct without proper intervention.
Now that you understand the power your mind has to create what you believe, you can see why it is important to control your self-talk, what you say to others, and what you allow others to say to you. What you say must be in agreement with what your affirmations say about you. If it’s in contradiction, your life will not change.
Being stuck in your rut prevents you from changing your thinking. When you stop believing things will be different, when you think your life cannot change and be what you dream of, you no longer have faith in the future. Neither will you have faith in your ability to make things better for yourself or your family.
Until you challenge status quo and recognize that you are living in a rut, your life will continue to be unsatisfying and without meaning. So what can you do to change your rut? I suggest you start small, with changes that others will not notice in the beginning: take a different route to work, answer the phone different than usual, talk kinder to your family members and co-workers.
Make a list of what you want and then tell yourself that you can make these dreams real. You need someone to account to that understands your visions and goals. Someone you can bounce ideas off of. If you need someone to fill this role, I am willing to help you. I am a really good listener, supporter, and I will NOT try to push an opportunity on you or a product. I am willing to help you with NO STRINGS ATTACHED!
Send me an email at Judith@AssociatedBusinesssystems.net
One of the greatest lessons you and I will ever learn is that enduring hardships, disappointments, adversities, and afflictions is necessary to grow, to learn, and to advance in our understanding.
Regardless of circumstances, it is within our ability to be successful during trying times if we know how to go about it, and if we are ready to make that commitment. Have you the commitment to make your business successful, even in this down economy?
I welcome you to this site. I believe you will benefit from the lessons I have learned about success and failure, and about building a successful Internet business when you use the correct tools.
Knowing of my own struggles, which I now share with you, can help you overcome your own difficulties as well. My story is not that unique. I have experienced many of the same obstacles as you and overcome them as well. However, unlike some of you, I have had to find commitment way down in my soul when my dreams were challenged by family and friends. You can find my story on the video below.
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